I would never trade my great friends,

my wonderful life, my loving family for less white hair or a flatter stomach.

As I got older, I became friendlier and less critical of myself.

I became my friend… I don't berate myself for eating an extra cookie, not making the bed, or buying something stupid that I don't need.

I have the right to be messy and extravagant. I have seen many dear friends leave this world too soon before realizing the great freedom of aging… Who would blame me if I decided to read or play on my computer until four and sleep until noon?

Who will make me happier if I stay in bed or in front of the TV as much as I want?

I will dance to the wonderful hits of the 70s and 80s and at the same time I will want to cry about lost love… if I want to.

If I want to I will walk on the beach in shorts that cling to the relaxed body and dive selflessly into the waves, despite the disapproving looks of others…

I know I forget things sometimes, but there are some things in life that just have to be forgotten. I remember important things. Of course, I've had my heart broken many times over the years. But broken hearts give us strength, understanding and compassion.

A heart that has never suffered is blameless and barren, and will never know the joy of being imperfect. I was lucky enough to live long enough to have my gray hair and youthful laughter forever etched on my face.

Many never laughed, many died before their hair turned silver. It's easier to be positive as you get older. You don't care what others think of you. I no longer doubt myself. I have earned the right to make mistakes.

So… to answer your question, do I like getting old?

I like the person I've become. I won't live forever, but while I'm still here, I won't waste time regretting what could have been or worrying about what will be…

Some naturally beautiful thoughts of Gabriel Garcia Marquez to you all ..

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Stob, Bulgaria